Feelings could get complicated quickly today, when your ruler, messenger Mercury, makes a retrograde U-turn. As the messenger planet backs up through your intimate eighth house until January 18, feelings WILL run hot and cold. Unless you’re trying to win a mirrorball trophy in the pursuer-distancer dance, don’t wait for other people’s cues before you make a move. Decide now that you’ll be proactive about keeping your most important relationships healthy…even if that means asking for a little space when you need it